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Desire Doesn’t Ask Permission
Learning to follow the impulses that shape your intimacy and pleasure.
Sep 24
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Violet Fawkes
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Consent Isn’t a Buzzword, It’s a Love Language
Easy, real life scripts for when things start to heat up
Sep 12
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Violet Fawkes
4
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Not Kinky, Just a Few Kinks
Some thoughts on the mental gymnastics of naming our desires
Sep 10
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Violet Fawkes
2
Is Sex-Positivity Inherently Queer?
Why pleasure, politics, and queerness are more intertwined than you think.
Sep 7
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Violet Fawkes
4
Why I Write What I Write
... and How You Can Support It
Sep 4
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Violet Fawkes
August 2025
How To Love A Writer
To love a writer is to learn the language of absence and presence at once.
Aug 31
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Violet Fawkes
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The Cultural Life of Fantasy
Mainstream fantasies tell us what’s safe to explore; niche fantasies show us where imagination truly runs wild.
Aug 28
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Violet Fawkes
3
Teen Idle
I’ve been thinking about what it meant to grow up in the so-called “streetlight generation,” when kids were left to figure out so much on their own…
Aug 22
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Violet Fawkes
1
Existential Ennui And The Absence of Want
Thoughts on nurturing desire in a world gone mad.
Aug 13
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Violet Fawkes
2
Dreams and Realities
Holding space for setbacks, lighting the way forward
Aug 10
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Violet Fawkes
2
What We Talk About When We Talk About Sex
Changing how we talk about sex doesn’t just shift our private lives, it reshapes the social landscape
Aug 6
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Violet Fawkes
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Venus in Aquarius, Gemini Moon
Some of us love best when we’re given the sky, not the cage.
Aug 2
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Violet Fawkes
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